Why do some women have men flocking after them while others simply sit in the corner like wallflowers? People often assume it has something to do with looks, but the same thing happens with certain sets of twins. One is a social butterfly and the other is not. Knowing how to charm the man you want is a skill some women have but others are lacking.

For some women, being charming comes naturally right up until the moment a male appears. Then everything shuts down and the female is left floundering for words. Charm is learned, however, thus it’s a skill every woman can pick up with some time, effort, and practice.

Express Interest

First and foremost, learn his name and use it often. Act like you are already friends and it will be easier to talk to him. In addition, be sure to ask about him, his likes and dislikes, his job, or anything that you want to know more about. Be prepared to share information with him also, as this exchange should not be one-sided. If this is an area you struggle with, practice as often as possible. By doing so, you’ll find that it becomes easier to talk to others and also to him.

Listen to What He Says

All too often, people ask a question but fail to listen to the answer. They may appear to be doing so, but they are actually formulating their response instead of taking the time to actually listen to what is being said. Don’t make this mistake. Charming people truly take an interest in the other person, their words, and their body language. Sadly, this is a skill many people now lack. Make sure you develop it fully, and you’ll find others take notice and want to spend more time with you.

These are only two of the many ways a person can charm the man they desire. There are others, such as making eye contact and complimenting him sincerely. Don’t act fake, as he’ll pick up on this immediately. If you follow these steps, you’ll find he is interested in you also.